Another Side of Me

Life is the process of finding love; every person will
need to find four people in their life.

First person is you, Second person is the one you
love most, Third person is the one who love you
most, And the fourth is the one you spend the rest
of your life with.

In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love
most, and learn how love feels. Because you know
how love feels, so you can find the person who
loves you most. When you have experienced the
feeling of loving others and being loved, you will
then know what it is you need most. Then you will
find the person who is most suitable for you, to be
able to spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually
not the same person.

The one you love most doesn't love you. The one,
who love you most, is never the one you love most.
And the one you spend your life with, is never theone you love most or the one who love you most.
He is just the person who happens to be at the
right place at the right time.

Which person are you in other people's life?

No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves you, he really
loves you. But when he doesn't love you anymore,
he really doesn't love you anymore. When he loves
you, he can't pretend that he doesn't. Same goes,
when he loves you no more, there's no way he can
pretend he loves you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to
leave you. You must ask yourself if you still love
him, If you also don't love him anymore, do not
keep him just to save your pride. If you still love
him, you should wish him happiness, and hope
that he will be with the one he loves most, not stop
him from it. If you stop him from finding true
happiness with the one he loves, it shows you
already don't love him, And if you don't love him,
what rights do you have to blame him for a change
of heart?

Love is not possessive, If you like the moon, you
can't just take it down and put it in your basin, But
the moonlight still shines upon you. In other words,
when you love a person, you can use another
method of possessing the person. Let him become
a permanent memory in you life. If you really love a
person, you must love him for what he is. Love him
for his good points, and the bad, You can't wish for
him to become like what you like him to be just
because you love him. If he can't change to
become what you like him to be, you don't love
him anymore.

When you really love a person, you cannot find a
reason why you love him, You only know that no
matter when and where, good mood or bad mood,
you will wish to have this person be with you. Real
love is when two people can go through the
toughest problems without asking for promises or
listing criterias. In a relationship, you have to
put in
effort and give in at times, not always be on the
receiving end. Being away from each other is a
type of test, If the relationship isn't strong, then
you can only admit defeat. Real love will never
become hate.

When two people are in love, They love to ask
each other to swear, to make promises. Why do
they ask each other to swear and promise?
Because they don't trust each other, they don't
trust their lover. These swear and promises are
useless; Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my
love for you will never change! We all know that the
sky will never fall; the ocean will never dry, Even if
it does happen, are we still alive by then?

Be careful when making promises; don't make
promises that you cannot keep. Swear by things
that can never happen, because it can never
happen, so no harm just saying it casually.
Remember, swearing by things that can never
h appen are the most touching!! In a relationship,
what you say is one thing, but what you do is
another; The one saying, doesn't believe; the one
listening, also doesn't believe.



NB: I always felt that my love life seems doesn't go well as I wish. It always hurt.

Those words really have a great great meaning and too easy to be written

but it's absolutely difficult to do..